Table of contents:
- Ignores you
- Avoid conversations with you
- Compassionate posture
- New romance
- Disconnection
- Selective information
- Radical change
- Social media blocking
- Avoid talking about the relationship
On many occasions, facing the end of a breakup is difficult and is not a dish of good taste for anyone. Suddenly, everything changes and you go from being part of a person's present to becoming their past. There are those who hold on to the fact that the situation will be temporary and the person will come back with you, even so, despite all the attempts made, you realize that your ex partner closes all the roads that lead to you.
Do you think your ex regrets it and wants to come back? Do you think that maybe your ex partner is looking for you again? In this Psychology-Online article we are going to give you 8 signs that show that your ex-partner does not want to go back with you.
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- Avoid conversations with you
- Compassionate posture
- New romance
- Disconnection
- Selective information
- Radical change
- Social media blocking
- Avoid talking about the relationship
Ignores you
Perhaps you have tried to establish contact with your ex partner and, to your surprise, every time you have made contact, you have received no response. You know that he has seen it but has not answered absolutely anything. Ignoring someone is a way of saying "you are no longer part of my life" without words. If your ex partner is doing this behavior, what he is indicating is that the chapter of his life with you is over. Therefore, the first of the signs that your ex does not want to get back with you is that he does not pay attention to you and does not stand that there is interaction between you or you.
Avoid conversations with you
There are couples that break up but have many things in common: friends, co-workers, etc. You realize that now that yours has been put to an end, because this person constantly avoids the places where you can find yourself or, if you coincide, he tries by all means not to have to speak with you. That can be a phase of mourning for the end of your relationship, but within it there is also the desire to overcome yours and rebuild your lives in separate ways.
Compassionate posture
Perhaps it was the other person who has decided to put an end to the relationship with you. It is then when the person may have feelings of guilt for the possible damage they have caused you and behaviors that try to compensate for this pain appear, such as meeting you or talking to you to find out how you are. All this can be an attempt to show you that you have been important to him or her and that he feels bad to see you like this, also in that way the guilt he feels diminishes.
If you think that the reasons why your ex partner keeps talking to you or tells you to stay are these and they give you hope and they harm you more than they heal, you should communicate it to them. If he just keeps talking to you, it may help to read this article where we talk about why your ex is looking for you if he does not want to get back with you.
New romance
A very clear sign is if your ex already has someone else in their life. It may seem hasty or a rebounding relationship. Even so, if the other person is already holding the hand of another couple, it is a very clear sign that at the moment there will be nothing else with you.
Disconnection
It seems that there is a black hole in the earth and it has swallowed your ex partner, if the person has decided to take refuge in himself or make his life without giving any sign of life of where he is or what he is doing, it is a clear sign that He does not want to return and is trying to rebuild his life after the break up without maintaining contact with those things that may remind him of you.
Selective information
A sign that your ex partner does not want to go back to you and also wants to show you, is when he sends you or informs you of the things he chooses, you detect that he manages all so that it reaches you according to what information that makes you open your eyes and give you Realize that it is no longer part of your life.
Radical change
You have spent time with your ex and you know what he likes, what not, what makes him laugh, what is his favorite food, etc. Since you left it, it has changed 180 degrees in everything: from the way of dressing to the places it frequents. This fact can be either a way of overcoming the breakup for the other person, or a way of expressing to yourself that everything he did was for you and that you didn't let him be who he was or that he is a very adaptable person and that Maybe he has found another partner and your ex has incorporated his customs.
Social media blocking
One way of telling you that he doesn't want anything else with you is by blocking yourself from social media so you can't keep track of him. You must respect their decision, even though it hurts, and accept the meaning that this action has and that is that at the moment this person is not willing to return to you. In this article we talk in depth about why your ex has blocked you and what you should do.
Avoid talking about the relationship
Perhaps you have finished in a friendly way and also have friends in common. So, when you meet, you maintain a cordial relationship, but if the subject of your relationship comes up or you remind him of something from when you were together, you detect that the situation immediately becomes tense and it is something that he wants to ignore so as not to give false hope or show enthusiasm for it. Avoiding talking about the relationship is another sign that your ex doesn't want to get back with you.
If you have not felt identified with these situations and you want to know if your ex still loves you, in the following article you will find the signs that your ex still loves you. In case it is your wish, in this article we provide some tips to keep in mind to get your ex partner back.
This article is merely informative, in Psychology-Online we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
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